Your Man Is Watching Porn? Enjoy it!

So you’re in a relationship with a man and you find out that he is still watching porn when he’s home alone. You’re sex life is healthy and you‘re wondering why he still feels the need to watch. Are you not good enough? Is he a pervert? What’s the deal?

For some, finding out that your man is watching porn feels like a blow below the belt. (pun intended). There is, however, nothing wrong with it.

1. It’s Not an Insult

Whatever you may be thinking in your head, don’t let it hurt your self-esteem. He’s not watching it because you don’t satisfy him. He’s watching it for one simple reason: it turns him on.

2. It’s Not Dirty, Wrong, or Disgusting

There is nothing wrong with watching porn. Millions of people all over the world watch porn every day, and it is a huge, money-making industry. Humans have basic instincts like all mammals do, and sex is one of them. Feeling aroused is one of the best feelings for any animal, including humans.

3. Be Happy

If your man is involved in a healthy sex-life with you and still goes home to watch porn, he’s got a very healthy sex-drive. This should be something to be excited about.

4. Try Something New

Some men watch porn because they like watching certain sexual acts that they are afraid to ask you to do with them. Some men may never want to try them in real life, but it arouses him to watch. Ask him about this. If there is something he would like to try with you, let him know you are open to suggestions.

5. Get Involved

The porn industry is definitely driven by male customers. However, don’t think there aren’t any women out there watching porn every day. Porn can be just as arousing for women too. Talk to your man about what kind of porn he enjoys watching. Is it something you’d be interested in watching too? Watching porn with your man can be a very erotic experience, and I can guarantee that you won’t be watching the end of the film.

Instead of getting upset because your man is watching porn, turn it into a new sexual experience. You may be surprised at how much enjoyment you can get out of it as a couple, and you might even pick up a new trick or two!