Call it fellatio or being eaten out, some girls love it while other girls hate it. If you have ever had a man go downstairs, chances are you know how incredible it can feel when it is done right. However, if you have been playing around with the possibility of engaging in this type of sexual act, it is important that you have a strong understanding of both the pros as well as the cons of fellatio.
The Pros of Fellatio
From a woman’s standpoint, I can proudly stand up and say that fellatio is awesome, as long as the man knows what he is doing. I have been with a couple of guys that tried to pleasure me in this way, and regretfully it felt like there was a dog between my legs trying to lap my clit off. It definitely wasn’t a good feeling at all.
There is a certain way that a guy has to approach giving a girl fellatio. Our vaginas are not like a popsicle stick, they need to be caressed and treated right. They need to know where the clit is, and what to do with their tongue once they have found it.
The orgasms that you will experience from fellatio are completely mind blowing. I can still recall my first orgasm that I had from fellatio. I was always kind of hesitant to let a guy go down there and do his thing, for some reason it just felt dirty to me. However, when my present husband told me he wanted to pleasure me in a different way, I let him have a whack it. All I can say is “OH MY GOD!” The first time that I had an orgasm from having fellatio performed was absolutely one of the most incredible feelings in the entire world.
The Cons of Fellatio
Of course, with every pro there are a couple of cons. Fellatio can be kind of icky feeling to some women. The thought of a man burying his head between her legs may make her feel uncomfortable, especially if you have a guy that does not know what he is doing. No woman wants to be lapped like a dog, and regretfully there are a lot of guys that take this avenue when performing fellatio.
Fellatio can be messy, especially after you orgasm. The guy that is performing fellatio will need to decide if he is going to swallow your cum when it comes gushing out of you, or back off and let your cum drip. If he backs off, then you are going to have a mess to have to clean up. However, if he keeps going and swallows like a champ, then fellatio does not need to be a messy ordeal.
I absolutely adore fellatio, and could not think of anything else that I would prefer to do as a form of foreplay. But, I understand that some women may be on the fence when it comes to fellatio. Do you like fellatio as a form of foreplay? If not, what do you not like about it?
You’re right – there’s nothing worse than a guy going between your legs who doesn’t have a clue what he’s doing – can you write an article on tips for men giving oral sex?Carly, Kentucky
I’ve never been able to get over the awkward feeling of having my guys head down there – glad to know I’m not the only one.Ashley, California
I used to hate the idea, but once my guy showed me how it was done – I never say no if he’s in the mood!Lauren, Tennessee