Our world is constantly changing, and that includes our take on sex. Women are more and more allowed to express their feelings about sex toys, and this has served to heighten the sales of sex toys for couples tremendously.
Unless you have been to an adult toy store recently you may not even know what’s available out there for sexual aids, sometimes referred to as marital aids. The term marital aids has always smacked of Puritanism to me making it sound as if those involved in marriage are in need of help! This is of course, far from what the meaning of it is, as these marital aids were actually created to enhance sex and render it more pleasurable for both parties involved.
If you walk into your typical sex store today, you will find that the majority of it is filled with toys that will appeal to most couples, as long as the definition of “couple” is not the straight laced view that it must mean a husband and his wife. Instead “couple” is no longer defined as a man and a woman who are married to each other. Couple may mean two men getting together for sex. It may mean two bisexual women getting together in order to have sex. The very definition of adult toys for dual sensations can easily be stretched to mean a double-headed dildo utilized by a homosexual female couple, thus “lesbians” who desire to please each other sexually.
Sex Toys For Couples: Can They Pleasure Women?
One of the things that most couples discover in a visit to such a store for masturbators for couples is that they find that their minds expand as to the sexual possibilities that they then might be able to experience. Whether it’s the use of blindfolds that make either men or women feel the surprise that their partner is capable of giving them in a sexual context, or the joy of simply submitting their body to the other, such an object opens up sexual possibilities that will actually expand their sexual knowledge of each other in ways they may not have thought about on their own.
It is a known fact, for example that women have rape fantasies, but they would never ever consider it sexually exciting to be raped for real, but having a book that deals with the fantasy being read by the couple may indicate the way for both of them to realize that fantasy. The book serves as the catalyst for sexual expression for both of them.
Sex toys for couples can even include simply an X-rated pornography film watched by the couple. Because of what they have seen, the film may just open the doors for that couple to be able to talk to one another about what feels good, and what does not and eventually lead them to sharing sexual fantasies as well. Many people are shocked to realize that the staid man or woman they are with actually harbor some pretty wild fantasies. It is so rewarding when we realize that we all have sexual fantasies, and that so many can be acted upon in the world behind the private bedroom door.