After you’ve been in a relationship with someone for a long time, saying “I love you” everyday might not be enough. The words, although full of meaning the first time you say them, may start to lose meaning. Actions speak louder than words. You need to show him that you care.

It doesn’t have to be hard. Here are some simple ways to show him that you care:

Flowers Aren’t Just for Women

Women always want their men to bring them flowers. Why? Because it makes you feel special. It lets you know he was thinking about you. Bringing home a bouquet of flowers might not feel right. But what about leaving a single rose on the dashboard of his car? Or in the medicine cabinet? Attach a small note “Thinking of You” or “Can’t wait to see you tonight”. He’ll be thinking about you all day.

Cook Him a Romantic Dinner

Cook for him, but go the extra distance. Instead of eating at the kitchen table like usual, use the dining room or set up a card-table outside. Decorate the table with candles and flowers. Make something you know he will love. Let him know you will be the dessert. ; )

Write a Love Letter

This may sound more difficult than it has to be. Simply write him a note letting him know why you think he’s amazing. Making it sexual will really get his attention. (“I really liked it when you did … last night”) Then put it in his briefcase or sneak it into his wallet so he’ll get it when you’re not around.

Bake Cookies

Most love baked goods. Have a batch of his favorite cookies ready for him next time he comes over. Make one or two of them into hearts, and write his name on them with icing. You don